Several years ago I received an email from Amy Dalley asking if I would help her brighten the holiday season for a family dealing with a life-threatening health issue. I don’t recall all the details, but I’m pretty sure the man of the house was physically unable to work, they were in jeopardy of losing their home and there definitely would be no Christmas gifts for the kids if the family didn’t get some help from someone . . . someone like Amy. I didn’t know the family at all, and I really didn’t know Amy as a close personal friend. But I had interviewed her several times, we got along well and I definitely liked her, as a performer, a songwriter and a person. When I got the request to help out the family in need, it confirmed what I had believed about Amy all along—the woman has a big heart. And she needed a big, strong heart during her five years as a Curb artist when seven singles—yes, I said SEVEN—were released, including the Top 30 “Men Don’t Change,” without ever having her album see the light of day. Quite a marketing strategy—produce an album, then get fans to like it by putting out a bunch of singles, then put the CD in the witness protection program. Fortunately, Amy’s strong heart didn’t break during what she describes as that very frustrating period. And that heart is on full display with the release this week of Amy’s latest—and best—CD, Coming Out of the Pain. The album is her second independent project (the outstandingIt’s Time in 2008 was the first) and showcases an artist who’s at the top of her game, having co-written all of the CD’s 10 tracks and given vocal performances full of the signature attitude, sensuality, humor, heartache, joy and strength her fans have come to expect from Amy.
The record begins with “Peace Sign,” a rockin’, take-no-crap tune that’s quintessential Amy as she responds to her man’s cowardly emailed breakup letter by telling him he put the F-U in fun and that she’s not trying to fight . . . just saying goodbye one finger shy of the peace sign. At least one of them in the relationship had some stones. The strong woman, strong vibe continues in “Breakin’ It Down,” a great tune where Amy lays it on the line to her man, telling him she’s tired of excuses, this is uselessand that she doesn’t believe him when he tells her—again—he’ll be a better man. What a concept, a strong woman telling her man she needed him to be strong, too.
The production in both of the first two tracks is impeccable (as it is throughout the entire record), all the more impressive since Amy sang all the vocals at her house, “barefoot and usually in pajamas with about a thousand candles burning down to the wax” as she says in the CD’s liner notes. Her husband, Jack Sizemore, engineered as she sang, then Amy “would fall asleep listening to Jack add guitar parts or sing the background parts as they floated up through the vents from downstairs.” And the guitar parts are spectacular, indeed. Edgy, yet tasteful and always prominent, while never drawing attention from Amy and what the songs are communicating. Very nicely done.
With “Somebody Said It Rained,” Amy showcases a different, more vulnerable and romantic side as she sings about two young lovers who need a vacation to find each other again and recapture the old magic in their relationship. While the brochure may have promised gorgeous beaches and long walks in the moonlight, the lovers never made it that far as they stayed wrapped up in a blanket for three days andgot lost in conversation while the world outside just disappeared. It’s a simply gorgeous tune with great imagery and a wonderful, heartfelt vocal from Amy.
“Saturday Night Situation” turns the attitude up to 11 as some rowdy girls hit the honky tonk for a little bull ridin’, shot slammin’, booty dancin’ and all that comes with it . . . including blue lights flashin’ and officers with badges. All in all, the perfect put-the-top-down and crank it up tune.
In “Damage Is Done,” Amy sings with simple resignation of a relationship that occasionally has encouraging moments, but far too often simply lets her down. It’s a heartbreaking look at a place most of us past age 25 have been at least once—even though a relationship may not be technically over, it’s irretrievably lost. And what a sad realization that can be.
With each new track on the record, Amy confirms that she is an artist in every sense of the word. Without exception her lyrics are intelligent, well-chosen, honest and full of wonderful imagery, without ever resorting to contrivance. That’s especially true in the powerfully haunting “Civil War,” about a couple who don’t know how they got to a place of such vitriol in their relationship, where there arebroken promises and poison words, where we prove a point and we make it hurt. A great, great song.
While the record definitely has more than a little heartbreak and different takes on relationships gone bad, the final two tracks—“Bottle It Up” and “Coming Out Of The Pain”—are nothing less than joyous anthems to how wondrous love can be when it’s totally right, totally good. Written with husband Jack, “Pain” is a testament to refusing to stay down when you’re knocked down, as well as to the healing power of love when it’s given by the perfect person at just the perfect moment. The production is, once again, impeccable, as are lyrics like every sound from your mouth fills the spaces where the hurt poured out. Just beautiful.
It’s obvious Amy has, indeed, put her whole heart into this new project, and I know she’s rightfully very proud of it. She should be, but not just because she’s created a record where her writing, her singing, her passion and her talents are all displayed at their absolute best. She’s done it on her own, her way, without any input from record label executives or marketing focus groups. And she deserves to be rewarded for creating such a wonderful piece of art on her own terms. I hope she will be.
I started this review on a very personal note concerning Amy, and it seems appropriate to end with another one. The day I received Amy’s CD, I was heading out the door to see my parents, an hour away. It seemed liked the perfect time to take a first listen to Amy’s record, so I popped it into the CD player and listened from top to bottom, thoroughly enjoying every tune. Later, when I got home, I pushed the eject button and nothing happened. The CD was stuck and, in spite of my best efforts with screwdrivers, needle-nosed pliers and fists, remains so several days later. However, I have since listened to the record multiple additional times, and continue to discover new things to like about it. If a CD had to get stuck in my car—apparently forever—thank God it’s Amy’s. Go to AmyDalley.com and buy it.—David Scarlett
Track List
1. Peace Sign
2. Breakin’ It Down
3. Somebody Said It Rained
4. Saturday Night Situation
5. Damage Is Done
6. I May Love You Now
7. Civil War
8. Round And Round
9. Bottle It Up
10. Coming Out Of The Pain